What Parents Can Do To Help At School - Please let your child walk into school rather than carry them, It would be great if they can carry their own lunch box. This sends a silent message to your child that you believe they are capable and independent, able to do things for themselves. At Home – Have a consistent routine for mealtimes, bedtimes and bath time. Children at this age thrive on consistency. They know what to expect and it builds their security. Have your child eat at a table, rather than walking around with food or drink. The children must sit down at a table while eating and drinking at school. Have your child participate in as much as possible. Let them help with fixing dinner, set the table, carry laundry, feed a pet, choose their own clothes by giving them 2 outfits to choose from. Have clothes that are easy for children to put on and take off themselves.