Parents frequently ask me if their child should receive counseling outside the school setting. This is a complicated and difficult question. The answer depends on the particular child, presenting problem, and the frequency and intensity of the problem. Generally, if a child is feeling comfortable at school and coping with school academics, this is a good sign that they are able to fit into the school environment. However, if a child is experiencing difficulties at home or in the community, if family members and/or their child are feeling extremely stressed, it can be very helpful and useful for the parents to seek outside assistance. The first step would be to check the family's health insurance coverage to see what providers are listed and what the cost will be for the sessions. Sometimes, Employee Assistance Programs through parents' employers offer free services and/or information and referral. Du Page County has a mental health division that can offer services on a sliding scale to families in Du Page County. Their phone number is 630-627-1700. Also, Bloomingdale Township providers services, although there may be a wait list there. Their phone number is 630-893-6685.