Your School Counselor is a professional with a Master's degree in counseling
or social work. He or she is trained to help families and children with
various social, emotional and behavioral problems which are interfering with
school functioning.
A school counselor sees children individually and in groups to help them
develop coping skills and deal with feelings or difficult situations.
Because the counselor is also concerned with the social/emotional climate of
the whole school, he or she may teach lessons in the classroom on topics
such as bullying, friendship or dealing with feelings.
A group is indicated when the issue is social skills or when a number of
children are dealing with a common situation, such as divorce, transiton to
middle school or negotiating friendships.
Children show their distress in different ways such as:
1. changes in appetite
2. sleep disturbances
3. lack of interest in usual activities
4. an increase in misbehavior
5. seeming distracted
6. anxiety or worry
7. excessive clinginess
8. new fears
9. refusing to go to school
10. rituals such as things needing to be lined up a certain way
11. crying excessively
12. talking about hurting self or others
These may be signs that your child should be evaluated by a
professional.