How Parents Can Help during the middle school years!

  

The Middle school years your child will need to becme more independent and 
learn to work wtih others; a time when your child will take important steps 
in preparation for his/her future educational endeavors. 

Continue to encourage your child to read.  Consider using books as gifts and 
rewards.  Books on tape, digital books, or downloadable books are a great 
tool for many kids.

Make learning a priority in your household
The tools necessary to successfully learn, and retain, the information your 
child is taught each day at school. These will include the negotiation of 
study time and place. The right time to study will vary from child to child 
with some preferring to work right after school and others needing a break 
and preferring evening study time. The ideal place to study will also vary 
and might include your child’s room or the kitchen or dining room table.


Help your child develop good study habits
The tools necessary to successfully learn, and retain, the information your 
child is taught each day at school. These will include the negotiation of 
study time and place. The right time to study will vary from child to child 
with some preferring to work right after school and others needing a break 
and preferring evening study time. The ideal place to study will also vary 
and might include your child’s room or the kitchen or dining room table.
Make sure the area is well lit. Eliminate, or minimize, distractions; this 
will improve your child’s ability to concentrate on their work. This becomes 
more challenging as older students become accustomed to “texting” on cell 
phones and playing video games while studying. Beware; though they may claim 
they are multi-tasking”they are often not devoting the necessary attention to 
their work.

Help them organize and prepare
Make use of a large calendar -one that allows space for documenting what is 
to be accomplished on a daily basis. Then refer to the calendar with your 
child to make note of what has been done in a timely fashion and what remains 
to be done. This practice can be used for large projects as well; break the 
large project down into manageable tasks done on a scheduled basis until 
completion. All students can benefit from this activity but it will be of 
particular significance to those with identified attentional issues.